Thought Experiment on Paedophilia

So, a little thought experiment. You’re an adult, and you’re only attracted to adults. A curse was placed on you when you were young because of something your parents did. The person who cursed you has died, but the curse is still in effect. You believe there is no way to lift the curse. The…

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Celibate Pedophilia Without Anguish

I discovered my attractions in my 50s and I knew I’d never act on them, so they never troubled me much I’ve read the six testimonials included in this collection as of today. What will strike outsiders is not so much what they contain as what they lack — the authors are not child molesters! They describe complicated…

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The first time I didn’t view child pornography

I’m one of a group of people you might have started to hear about by now: under the name of ‘virtuous pedophiles’ we are people who experience attraction to minors but choose not to act on it or to commit other related offences. Since I first became aware I was a pedophile, I have dealt…

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What do these “MAPs” want? Why are they on twitter??

This is, in a nutshell, why it’s a good idea there are NOMAPs on twitter. I’m a non-offending MAP. “MAP” stands for “minor attracted person” and is a more sciencey term for what is conventionally called a pedophile. Which probably made you shudder. However, I don’t do bad stuff to kids because I am that…

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Censorship Of Sex Abuse Preventionists

What would you say if you found out that a platform dedicated to letting people tell their stories suddenly… shut down stories because of who was telling them? What would you say if you found out that Medium, a publication dedicated to people telling their stories from all angles and political affiliations, silenced the voice…

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The Complexities Of A Pedophile Coming Out

Many times, pedophiles have a huge fear around coming out as a pedophile to friends and loved ones. Many of us have heard the horror stories: Pedophiles getting outed, kicked out of the house, losing jobs, friends, family, even committing suicide. So, we must ask the question… What Do Most Coming Outs Look Like? Absolutely nothing…

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LGBTQ+… And Pedophiles?

Think minor attracted people want in on the LGBT+ community? Think again.

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Why Nathan Larson Does Not Represent Most Pedophiles

By now, you may have heard the news that Nathan Larson, who is (safely, we can say was, at this point) a Virginian congressional candidate, has certain views about child sexual abuse, rape, and the sexual exploitation of children that are enough to make anyone sick to their stomach. And yes, they have been confirmed….

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Your Arguments Against Pedophiles… DEBUNKED!

I have been on Twitter for a long time, and I have seen a range of arguments being presented to pedophiles. Chances are, if you are arguing with me, I have addressed what you have said before. Some of your points are logical, some are not, and some are based in a misunderstanding of the…

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Challenging Negative Thoughts In The MAP Community

There are many concerns that the MAP (Minor Attracted Person) community faces. Often, those concerns have far more to do with stigma than they do with being attracted to minors. But how can that be? Well, take a little trip with me for a moment. You read news articles where they use the word “pedophile”…

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