Original audio. Meg: So, hello everyone, this is Meg Martinez, I’m the co-host of the prevention podcast, here with Bruce. Welcome Bruce! Bruce: Hello. Meg: We’re so grateful to have you here on our podcast today. So, first, let’s just talk about what brings you to our podcast. Why do you want to be here…
Pedophiles About Pedophilia
TGPP Transcript: Ender Wiggin, Male Non-Offending Pedophile
Original audio. Candice: Welcome to the prevention podcast, I’m your host, Candice Christiansen. Our goal, at the prevention podcast, is to talk about dicey, controversial issues related to preventing sexual abuse. Why? Because it needs to be said. Topics include the biology of pedophilia, risk, need and responsivity principles related to non-contact and contact sex…
TGPP Transcript: Emma, Female Non-Offending Pedophile
Original audio. *Note: This transcript was written by Nigel Lackland* Welcome to the prevention podcast, I’m your host, Candice Christiansen. Our goal, at the prevention podcast, is to talk about dicey, controversial issues related to preventing sexual abuse. Why? Because that needs to be said. Topics include the biology of pedophilia, risk, need and responsivity…
Why pro-contact pedophile arguments are bullshit (by a pedophile)
Pedophiles (or MAPs) can be moral human beings who never hurt a child, despite their attraction. Don’t be suckered by those who say it’s OK to act on it or those that claim it’s inevitable you will. Hi there, fellow MAP. MAP stands for “Minor Attracted Person” and it applies to you if you have…
A Strange and Terrible Unicorn
The Musings of a Non-Offending, Female Pedophile This is terrifying. Even to write this anonymously makes my heart beat faster. What I’m talking about right now is very difficult for me, because everyone who loves me has told me never to talk about it. You may call me Emma. I am a woman, approximately 30…
My greatest fear turned into the source of my greatest joys.
Photo by David Clode on Unsplash I was in my young teens when I started to realise. I denied it. I hoped it would go away. I tried to figure it out so maybe I could change it. I had learned from the media, incorrectly, that “paedophile” and “child molester” were the same thing. Even my…
Coming to Terms with Being a Paedophile, Over 30 Years Ago
As an early teen in the 1980s, I started to realise I might be different. I pulled the large family dictionary off the shelf and looked up the word “paedophile.” The definition: “child molester.” I went back into denial for a while. I knew I was attracted to little girls. I also knew didn’t want…
Accidental Adoption
Disclaimer: Be careful. While I did nothing inappropriate, I am lucky I was never accused of such. Your mileage may vary. So far, this is the biggest story of my life. The child in this story is female-to-male transgender and came out as such and transitioned later, but he was always male inside. I thought…
Caught in their Filters
I spend some time talking to people on Twitter and other places about what it’s like being a non-offending paedophile. Mostly I am trying to reach out to other paedophiles, but I talk to other people too. Sometimes it seems like everything I say is put through a filter. Maybe they think everything I say…
Keeping Children Safe and Entertained
I recently went to an event and volunteered to help out with their children’s activity room. I did not plan it that way, but I was in put in charge of the room. And I had no helpers. I am an anti-contact paedophile. I have aesthetic and romantic attractions to young children, mostly girls. I…