For those who may not know, I am one of the rare pedophiles that came forward for professional help. A little over five years ago now, I had worked myself into a mental place where I hated my attractions because of being abused, and I thought my attraction meant I would hurt a child. So,…
Pedophiles About Pedophilia
Stories about pedophilia, written by pedophiles.
Fact-Checking Snopes’ Fact-Check On Pedophilia
Several times, I have contacted Snopes to tell them their fact-checks on pedophilia lack merit. Each time, I have told them that pedophilia is not the sexual abuse of a child, but the sexual attraction to children. Each time I see a new Snopes article discussing pedophilia, they keep making the same mistake. So, what…
Dolls, Manga, And Fictional Outlets For Pedophiles
Before I begin this, I need to share with you the very beginning of my journey as an advocate. In the beginning, I relied on a website that seemed to have some solid information on helping those with pedophilia. The website stated that 95% of child sexual abuse is preventable because 95% of child molesters…
Adam Lanza, Aspergers, and Pedophilia
By now, you have likely heard the news that in addition to having an obsession with mass shootings, in addition to being a gun nut living with a paranoid gun nut, besides not being medicated for having Aspergers, Adam Lanza, the man who opened fire in Sandy Hook, killing 28 people (mostly children) supposedly…
On Christian Pedophiles Hating Themselves
Recently, I have been working with a young man who has a sexual attraction to children (young boys) and, like me, comes from a religiously Christian background. Some of his thoughts and ideas give the impression that it is morally right for pedophiles to hate themselves for their attractions to children (the idea that pedophilia…
How Someone Becomes A Pedophile
For those who do not know, I advocate for the primary prevention of child sexual abuse, or stopping it before it can happen. I want to ensure there are methods in place to get people to a healthier mindset before abuse happens, and methods in place so that those who may be at-risk for…
American Non-Thinker: Normalizing Pedophilia?
Ah, political blogs. Do you read them often? I do not so much, but I do enjoy critical thinking, and I noticed an article earlier this month from a blog that purports to be oriented around thinking: American Thinker. My first red flag should have been the first comment on the article: But I get…
Is Pedophilia A Sexual Orientation?
There has been a bit of hubub in the news lately, as the BBC released an interesting article written by a 60-year-old pedophile who claims to have pedophilia, which he deems a “deeply distressing sexual orientation.” This has set off an uproar on social media, and has now been covered by RT, The Daily Caller,…
My Experience With Sexual Abuse… And Pedophilia
None of the people who sexually abused me were sexually attracted to children. None of them had a criminal history. All of them were people I knew and trusted, and that had a significant impact on my perspective of the world. Not only has that been my experience, that is also what the statistics about…
Can Pedophilia Be Changed? The Scientific Community Says…
The scientific community, as with homosexuality, has not reached complete consensus because there are holdouts suggesting that it can be changed. In fact, I recently was informed by someone I very much trust and respect that a Canadian researcher had found evidence that sexuality can change. There was also a news article suggesting the same….